By Kelly Corrigan
Manhattan instances BESTSELLER
From the writer of the center position comes a brand new memoir that examines the bond--sometimes nourishing, occasionally exasperating, sometimes divine--between moms and daughters.
When Kelly Corrigan was once in highschool, her mom well summarized the kin dynamic as "Your father's the glitter yet I'm the glue." This intended not anything to Kelly, who left youth yes that her mom--with her inviolable commandments and proud stoicism--would be not anything greater than historical past chatter for the remainder of Kelly's existence, which she used to be rigorously orienting towards event. After collage, armed with a backpack, her own project assertion, and a wad of traveler's assessments, she took off for Australia to determine issues and do issues and develop into Interesting.
But it didn't end up the way in which she pictured it. In an issue of months, her discounts shot, she had a decision: get a task or move domestic. That's how Kelly met John Tanner, a newly widowed father of 2 trying to find a live-in nanny. They chatted for an hour, mentioned timing and pay, and per week later, Kelly moved in. And there, in that condo in a suburb north of Sydney, 10,000 miles from the home the place she used to be raised, her mother's voice used to be abruptly far and wide, nudging and advising, cautioning and directing, escorting her via a terrain as overseas as any she had ever trekked. each day she spent with the Tanner young children was once an afternoon spent reconsidering her dating along with her mom, turning it over in her palms like a shell, straining to listen to no matter what messages should be trapped in its spiral.
This is a publication concerning the distinction among shuttle and lifestyles adventure, stepping out and stepping up, fathers and moms. yet as a rule it's approximately who you appreciate and why, and the way that adjustments over time.
Praise for Glitter and Glue
"I enjoyed this ebook, i used to be moved by means of this publication, and now i'll percentage this booklet with my very own mother--along with my renewed appreciation for convinced accounts of affection which can by no means be repaid."--Elizabeth Gilbert, manhattan instances bestselling writer of devour, Pray, Love
"[A] humorous, gleaming memoir."--More
"Kelly Corrigan isn't any stranger to mining the depths of her center. . . . [In] Glitter and Glue, Corrigan turns the microscope on her courting together with her personal mom. . . . via her personal event of taking good care of kids, she starts, for the 1st time, to understand the advanced girl who raised her."--O: The Oprah Magazine
"Corrigan writes with heat and mild humor."--The Washington Post
"In this endearing, humorous, and thought-provoking memoir, Kelly Corrigan's stories of long-ago adventures light up the altering relationships among moms and children--as good as every little thing else that actually matters."--Gretchen Rubin, long island instances bestselling writer of The Happiness Project
"Corrigan continues to be a full of life, nimble cheerleader for the fun of family."--People
"Kelly Corrigan parses the bittersweet complexities of motherhood with humor and beauty. Her writing has intensity and buoyancy and light-weight. It's a river on a summer season day. You slip into the present, guffawing, and are over excited by way of it. Glitter and Glue is an ideal reward for a person with a mother."--Mary Roach, long island instances bestselling writer of Stiff and Spook
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Extra info for Glitter and Glue: A Memoir
Others are spring flowers. " I don't think I've ever heard anything sadder than this quote. Yet it gave me hope. It gave me permission to keep loving my daughter as long as she was with me. What can you do to gather a sense of love around you? Is there anyone you can call for support? When you hear the words unconditional love, which people come to mind? Have you met other parents whose children are suicidal? Have you talked with any of them and asked if you may call if you're feeling upset and offered your phone number too?
Even when a family is healthy, rebellion is a normal part of growing up. Welcome Crisis-Intervention In the years since, I have found out that what happened is common in early recovery: I was finally living in a stable, trustworthy way, and my daughter unconsciously knew it was safe for her to get the attention she needed for her problems. I could be there for her in a way that I was not capable of before. Page 12 The school social worker called me one morning and said, "We have Rachel here in the office and she's having a problem.
But I hope other parents will feel free to skip around in the book if their journeys take different turns. I'm writing this book pseudonymously for three reasons. The first reason is to protect my daughter's identity. When she is an adult, she may want to write her own story about her experience with mental health issues. I don't want to make that decision for her, even though she has given me her consent to write about her and even though some of her writing is included in this book. The second reason is to protect my anonymity as a member of Alcoholics Anonymous and Al-Anon.
Glitter and Glue: A Memoir by Kelly Corrigan